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It was good to see you both tonight! Thanks for the talk! Love you and we will see you on October 5th. |
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What a great dream Barb! And there is absolutely nothing wrong with giving the boys a present for Uncle Mark's birthday!
I think it's a great idea! |
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Nothing wrong with a little bribery:) Hope you have a good Marks birthday! And I loved the dream! He's still with you even
when you think he's far away. That proves it to me!
Love ya!!!!
Shannon |
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I loved your dream. I hope you remember it always! I had a funny dream after my parents died - they died 4 months apart.
Very hard!
Anyway, I dreamed my mom and I were on a park bench in National Cemetery, holding hands and talking. I was so glad to see
her. All of a sudden, I remembered that she had died and yet here we were together. I laughed and said, "Mom, you're here!
How's heaven? She laughed and said, "How would I know!" And then it was over. But it wasn't a bad dream - it was just
funny. My mom was funny and it made me know that everything was OKAY!
I know your Mark is okay, too, as do you. Take care! |
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You did mention mass, but I was wondering if you planned on having another celebration at blarney stone or your house for
mark's birthday this year? I would love to see you and Don....it has been too long! Maybe we all could do something, small
or big?!?! Miss you and love reading your messages! |
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Always thinking about you and praying for you! |
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Barb---congrats on your new position at the VA---being close to home and having a change of scenery will be a good thing---sorry
I missed you and Don at the shop recently, I've been traveling a lot lately---will catch up soon---Tim |
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Just stopped in to say hello! What are all the weird letters in a couple posts on here? |
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Mark used to joke with me that I was out of job b/c they already cured cancer... and I would simple respond that I am so so
glad. I hope one day this is true! Mark knew that the reason I am so passionate about cancer research is largely b/c of him.
He inspires me daily and whenever I need motivation, there always is a little reminder from Mark of why I am doing what I
do. I have a picture of Mark on my desk in the lab and it reminds me daily to keep fighting cancer in his memory. So, dont
just believe it, KNOW that Mark is my inspiration. |
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od luck on your new job a change will do u good bjc is ure comfort |
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I still have his blue hoodie that he wore the last time when I was out there visiting with him ... it was still sitting in
the car ... I keep it close to me as a reminder that he is always here ... you and I are due for a phone call! oh, and you'll
have to keep that cheerleading jacket for me ... so that in 10 years, when I come back to visit you and the family, I can
try it on and see how it fits! that'll be a sight, I'm sure! love and miss you |
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best of luck at the VA! what a perfect place! |
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YAY!! I'm so glad you are taking the VA job!! It will be such a positive change for you! And give you more time to be around
that new baby come Spring! love you guys!! |
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| submitted on September 8, 2008 11:33 PM EDT |
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Congratulations on the new job!!! What a wonderful sign that it was the right decision! |
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Congratulations on the new job! I know that this is something you had to decide for yourself, but I really think it is right!
You do need more time for yourself, Don and your family! I can't wait to read new posts about how much you love it! What a
great sign to get from Mark! |
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Just wanted to stop in and tell you all I was thinking about you this morning. |
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| submitted on September 7, 2008 1:56 AM EDT |
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Barb,
When, where and how much is the tournament? I haven't heard anything about it but I would love to play. Could you email
me the details, please? Thanks! |
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| submitted on September 5, 2008 12:58 AM EDT |
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So, Ben & I went riding down at the ranch this morning and wouldnt you know it ... dragonflies surrounded me for the first
few minutes I was there! they were huge too! Then, just as quickly as they came, they left ... made me smile and think not
only of Mark but of the entire DeWalle Family! love you guys! |
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| submitted on September 4, 2008 9:28 AM EDT |
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So this morning...rain rain rain.. I took broadway to jefferson to work instead of the highway and I ran through a yellow
turning red light. Of course there were those stupid flashes taking my picture. It made me think of your blog a few weeks
back.... Let's hope that they got someone's elses plates instead of mine.
Just thinking about you and hope all is well. I am sure this decision you are making is a good thing. Hope to hear more soon!
Love ya. |
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Barb...I am so happy you came to the dinner. I could tell when you asked about it, how that picture had special meaning for
you. It actually is titled "Remember... But Go Forward"..even more appropriate, don't you think! I ordered you a copy!
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Barb: After reading your last entry it brought tears to my eyes just thinking about the hand and the baby picture. Through
experience, it is so true, so hard to do, but so necessary to move forward. I am always looking for phrases and words to
help me get through past and present situations. I think I have told you this prase before.
Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
Moving forward is like dancing in the rain. Mark is proud and wants you to dance.
Thoughts and prayers always, Kris |
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| submitted on August 31, 2008 2:15 PM EDT |
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I agree with Mandy and Jen, this is not a pity party! I love reading what your family is doing and all the exciting news
or the down days it doesn't matter! It's a way to keep Mark alive...never a pity party! |
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| submitted on August 27, 2008 10:46 AM EDT |
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As Mandy said, this is not a pity party... I look forward to reading everything that you write on this site...I like to know
how you, don and your family are doing. If you are upset and just feel like writing one line about how much you miss Mark,
that's what I come to the site to see. This is a place for everyone to hear what you have to say and to talk to others about
how they are doing from dealing with missing Mark. We love you and appreciate everything that you blog about. |
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| submitted on August 27, 2008 2:59 AM EDT |
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This site never seems like a pity party for you ... it is a tool you are using to help try to sort out the events that took
place and will never stop taking place ... and it is a way to help heal ... even though the healing will never be quite complete
... and it is a way for me and others I am sure to be able to listen to you even when you are busy and cry with you even though
it's from thousands of miles away and continue down the terrible journey that is losing Mark ... never a pity party. Never
think that. I'll call you soon! love you and the family so very much! |
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Congratulations DeWalle family, on expecting a new baby! |
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Barb, I had the weirdest dream last night. I was outside, shovelling snow, when I noticed something shiny, resting outside
by our mailbox. There were four rings that people had dropped. Two of them were wedding rings, and they belonged to an old
friend of mine and his wife. I looked at the inscription of the other two, and they were rings from high school. They belonged
to Jonathan Hearst and Mark. That was when I woke up. I'm still trying to figure out what that meant. |
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I am positive Mark will be looking down when the new baby arrives and smiling on us all, but the baby is inside mommy's belly
with his/her heart beating constantly, baby is no where else but in mommy. God created this child in his mother and the baby
does not wander off during the nine months. |
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| submitted on August 21, 2008 9:38 PM EDT |
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Just b/c the baby won't know Mark "physically" (even though you know he's up there with the baby playing right now) doesn't
mean that the new baby will never know Mark. There are plenty of memories, stories, friends and family that can fill the
new baby in and he/she will feel like they already know him...probably b/c they really do! |
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| submitted on August 20, 2008 2:07 PM EDT |
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THat is SOOO great! I was just asking you last week if they were planning on having anymore children ... what a blessing!!
:) |
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Tim Watkins |
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Wonderful news Barb and Don on the expectant grandchild! I'm in Memphis working at Mark's stores this week and am always
reminded of him here---we'll visit soon--Tim |
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Congrats DeWalles!!!!! |
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Congratulations on the exciting news!! I am so happy for you all!! |
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Congratulations! I am so excited to hear the news of the new addition to the DeWalle gang! How absolutely wonderful! Barb
- I was thinking about Mark all afternoon today. I was at the Air and Water Show in Lincoln Park and there were dragonflies
everywhere! I am not sure if it is the sound of the planes that makes them go crazy, but they were everywhere. I just kept
wondering, 'Which one is Mark??' Never quite figured it out, but I am sure he was there with me somewhere! |
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Congratulations on the new addition! Spring will come in no time!!! |
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| submitted on August 17, 2008 8:48 AM EDT |
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Congratulations, DeWalle family! Such exciting news! I'm so happy for you :-). I know that Mark is already having a blast
with his new niece/nephew. |
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| submitted on August 17, 2008 1:07 AM EDT |
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Well CONGRATULATIONS on the new baby! They always say with every passing comes a new birth! |
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Words cannot express the joy I feel for you and your family. This baby will be blessed to enter into the arms of all of you.
Enjoy every minute of the journey as you await the arrival of your new bundle of JOY. |
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Hi Barb, Im just now catching up on everything from the past couple weeks, I feel like Ive been out of town all month. I absolutly
LOVE the silouette pic of John and his 2 boys from your vaca... its so beautiful!! I also had a dragonfly visit a couple weeks
ago when i was swimming down at the lake and it sat on my finger for about 2 minutes and usually I would scream and freak
out but I handled it quite well and a friend even got a pic of it, Ill send it if I ever get it from her... anyways, just
thinking of you guys |
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Just want to let you know that I think of you daily and pray for you all the time. I can't imagine your struggles, but I want
you to know that I am here if you ever need anything. Thanks for posting on this site, it really makes a difference because
I get to know how you are. We love you very much. |
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I am not one of the "younger" people who frequently write in daily with thoughts of dragonflies & rainbows & celebrations...
What I pray and wish for is that YOU (Barb) can find the strength to tske really good care of yourself & health. Change
the things you can & ability to accept reality. |
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I second Mandys comment about the "Mark event" to plan for in October!! I'll be there! We are all looking forward to getting
together and celebrating Marks life. I think about Mark and all of you often. Michelle |
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Just wanted to let you all know that I am thinking about you...I check the site everyday and look forward to thinking about
Mark. Honestly, there isn't a day that passes when I don't. His picture is one of the first things that I see every morning.
Love you! I'll give you a call soon to catch up! |
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I love you. |
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sending smiles your way :) |
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Hugs comin' at ya from Florida. Be good to yourself |
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You can "talk" to Mark...Even though I know it's not the way you would like. Just go out to his garden and talk...about your
day, what's been going on and how much he is loved! He'll hear... |
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| submitted on August 11, 2008 7:48 PM EDT |
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I'm glad too Momma ... and I'm always here ... and Mark's always going to be in my thoughts ... and while you may feel that
there are no more Mark events to plan for, there are Mark's friends' events that you will always be a part of ... one is coming
up in October ... I'll call again soon. love you guys! |
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| submitted on August 10, 2008 11:56 PM EDT |
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just dropping by ... loved the photos from your vacay ... looks like you all really had a great time! much deserved! miss
you and love you! |
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| submitted on August 9, 2008 9:52 PM EDT |
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Dropping by thinking about Mark and his family as I often do. |
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| submitted on August 9, 2008 4:16 PM EDT |
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Loved the slide show! Glad you had a good time! |
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The pictures are beautiful! Thinking of you often! |
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| submitted on July 31, 2008 11:19 PM EDT |
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LOL, slap Don everyday, that's funny! I'm glad you found your camera and bag though! |
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Hey Barb, I don't know if you're big into sewing, or if you know anybody who is, but I was buying fabric to cover my bulletin
boards at school, and there was some really cool dragonfly print fabric. It's at Jo-Ann Fabrics on Gravois and Mackenzie.
I hope you're enjoying your trip!! |
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| submitted on July 27, 2008 7:18 PM EDT |
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I hope you all are having a GREAT time on your trip!!!! Deb, That is such a wonderful picture, thank you for posting it! |
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Barb and Don - I think you are leaving on your trip shortly, so I wanted to tell you that I hope you have a great time and
can do some relaxing! I will be home this weekend for yet another wedding! Barb - I love the story about Mark cleaning his
room....he always found a way to get what he wanted didn't he - too funny! Love you and we'll have to catch up soon!
Lisa |
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| submitted on July 21, 2008 9:15 PM EDT |
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Tyler Krueger |
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still thinking of you and your family everyday and checking the site. also wanted to give you my new email address. |
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You don't need any forgiveness from m, but if you want it, you've got it (hope the city of STL will cut you some slack, too).
Lot of good things came out of that horrible experience way back when. Mark's site is a constant reminder of how short life
is and how important it is to grasp on with all you can while we have it. Thanks for keeping it up...and take care. Love,
Your Other Marc |
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| submitted on July 19, 2008 11:47 AM EDT |
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Barb the carpet story is my favorite Mark story to. I remember when Mark suckered the Kirby lady, I should up at your house
later that day. You were telling me the story and really trying not to laugh and Mark just sat there with his grin. Then
the 12 year old beat me at basketball in the drive way... I was 16. |
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| submitted on July 17, 2008 5:23 PM EDT |
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I remember that call ... and fighting with Mark to "do whatever the doctor says is best" ... I ended up visiting you all instead
... and that was the start of some very hard, but very cherished 6 months. |
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| submitted on July 17, 2008 9:22 AM EDT |
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Hi Barb, Thanks so much for your take on the olympics story! Sounds very much like a champ! |
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| submitted on July 16, 2008 10:41 PM EDT |
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ha ha ha...so funny about the cleaning his room thing...sounds like something my son, Aiden, would do. I can wait until he
hits that stage, LOL! I love reading your memories! |
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| submitted on July 15, 2008 3:40 PM EDT |
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Jen Miller |
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Great memories! I was cracking up reading your post! That is so typical of a guy to find another person to clean, and perfect
for Mark to have a Kirby lady to come. Andy does the same thing with his shirts....no reason to have an iron, the dryer does
all the work. Thinking about you all the time!!!! |
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After I read the post I went to yahoo and seen this story...please read it and maybe blog about what you think about the story...here's
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I know the intersection you're talking about...I only live about 5 minutes away from it! That is a dangerous intersection
regardless of the cameras...I hope you don't get a ticket! |
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I had to giggle reading your posting today, because I just got 2 tickets in the mail for going through red lights on 141.
I swear it wasn't me though! It's so funny to me because I say the same thing to my mom all the time about her driving
habbits and then she tells me that she has never got into an accident. Then I say yeah but look in your rear view mirror
and there is probally a pile up. It must be a mom thing! Still thinking of you all often!!! |
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I started out searching for golfball tattoos on Google at 10pm...I came across the Tribute tattoo and have spent the last
3 hours reading this site... I have cried and I have laughed and I have learned. What a wonderful guy and what a wonderful
site you have here. I was extremely touched to see your latest posting... All clouds have a silver lining - even though at
first you might not see them. My prayers are with you and yours and I am sure Mark is now comfortable in a better place.
Peace be with you. |
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So, I was going through some of my old stuff from Mehlville and I found some pictures and stuff that I forgot I had of Mark,
and that time that Stacey and I toilet-papered his bedroom!! They will be on their way to you soon! hope you are well! |
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| submitted on July 2, 2008 1:33 PM EDT |
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Hi DeWalle's! Just wanted stop in and see if you had any pictures from Coach's retirement party that you're going to post?
I hope you have a wonderful 4th of July weekend! |
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Wow...how cool is that golf ball and dragonfly bird bath!!! That was definitely a HI MOM! I wonder if someone that knows
you seen it and they are purchasing it for you as a surprise gift? HMMMMM...thoughts to ponder on. |
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Barb - I had a hello from Mark on Saturday as well. I was at the Taste of Chicago watching Stevie Wonder play. It was a
gorgeous day outside and all of the sudden dark storm clouds moved through. They ended up passing over and as the sun started
to shine through I saw a dragonfly fly right past me. I can honestly say, that in the seven years that I have lived in Chicago,
I don't think I have ever seen one before. It's times like that when I am the most happy that he is okay, but the most sad
because I really do miss him! Also, thank you for continuing the site....I know that there are still so many people who continue
to follow it on a daily/weekly basis. I am sure that if the cost goes up, we'll cover it somehow!! Love you! |
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Here's something interesting, www.savebudweiser.com and www.markdewalle.com have alot in common, its a little ironic! |
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the garden is gorgeous! My thoughts and God's blessings! |
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Hi Barb!! Just thinking about your family lately. I was looking at the garden and noticed my grandparent's backyard behind
it in the picture:) I think it is anyway!! Just so you know, my last name will be changing to Willett next month, so you
know who I am next time I post!! Have a relaxing summer. Love, Stephanie Schaefer |
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Hey there DeWalles ... I'm back home for a very short time and wanted to stop in and say hello. Reading your posts and the
messages left by others still helps me in dealing with losing Mark ... as I'm sure it helps many others. Let's talk soon!
love you all! |
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| submitted on June 25, 2008 11:53 AM EDT |
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First off let me say Mark's garden is absolutely beautiful! Secondly, I forgot to RSVP for Coach Heyde's party! I feel so
bad...My best friend, Val is Ben Silhavy's g/f and she told me about it and I completely spaced it. I feel bad for my son
b/c I loved coach...I wanted my son to be able to know him as a coach but I knew that was a long shot and now it won't happen
but still he is a great man! I wish him all the best with his retirement. |
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Barb, the garden pictures look beautiful I can't wait to come out and see it |
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Okay I am guilty. I have not visited this site in months. Can't remember the last time I left a message. But Barb is right.
I am one of those family members who has found other ways to deal with Mark's death. I have learned to deal with it the
best I can. I doubt I will ever totally accept it. My wish is for some day to be able to visit Mark's grave. I have not
been able to do that. I have tried, many times. I know if the day ever comes that I go there I will not be able to go alone.
I am sorry to my sister for not always having the time to talk, visit, write. I sometimes selfishly forget the void that
has been left for you. I love you |
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| submitted on June 25, 2008 12:03 AM EDT |
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Barb, as I read your entry about all of your dragonfly items, I realized that my parents have an interesting dragonfly item
in their house. A few years ago, while I was away at college, they re-decorated my bathroom. The shower curtain has little
dragonflies all over it, as well as the hooks for it are dragonflies. The towels even have them on it, too.
So, don't feel too bad about the sink stopper--my old bathroom at my parents is decorated in dragonflies! |
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I am a stranger, but I wanted you to know how much your site means to me. Mark died not long after a friend lost her son (a
toddler, unfortunately...cherish all of those years!). I read your site to gain some insight into how she must be feeling,
and it really helps me know how to support her. I think of you often....you have support from people you don't even know!!
Take care of yourself. |
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Barb, Your garden looks awesome! The new pictures really show how amazing it is. The one picture you had before really didn't
show how big it is and how much work you and Don have put into it. The stepping stone is only a small gift from us, but I
am glad you like it. We love you! |
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Happy Birthday Don!!!!!!!!!! |
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That card sounds lovely! Absolutely perfect! |
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| submitted on June 14, 2008 11:55 PM EDT |
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Such a beautiful post! I loved it! |
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| submitted on June 14, 2008 11:04 PM EDT |
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Hi DeWalle's--I just wanted to let you know that I was thinking of you this week. I just got home from Destin, FL, and I was
looking at that beautiful blue water and thinking of you all. I can't believe it's been a year. I hope you are all doing all
right, and I'm keeping you in my prayers! Take care! |
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Hey Barb,
Sorry I wasn't able to write to you or get a message posted yesterday. Was over in the Tampa area doing a presentation for
(who else?) nurses. In working with these nurse educators, there were plenty of Barb stories from way back when on 7400. Not
easy to always step back in time for those stories, but from the reaction of the nurses, they got something from it. This,
too, is a pretty good reflection of how you've chosen to live life now: using unpleasant losses to help others into a positive
future. The whole RIP thing? Pretty obvious Mark is at peace now-but it's sooo awesome you're living in peace now, too. Be
well...Love Always, Marc
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Dewalle's- Mark is still thought about and missed by Golf Discount. I pray that you felt peace while reflecting about Mark's
life on Earth and the eternal life he now has.
Take care,
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Good night, sweet prince,
And may flights of angels sing thee to thy rest! -Hamlet |
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Although I visit Mark's site often, I've never left a message because I have never known quite what to say. I only had the
pleasure of meeting Mark on a couple of occasions, but the stories I have heard the past year from some of his friends has
inspired me to stay connected to the person behind these stories- and this website has provided just that. I keep you in my
thoughts and paryers this and every day and hope that you find peace in knowing that Mark is taking care of you from above. |
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| submitted on June 13, 2008 3:09 PM EDT |
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Mom Dewalle: It was both of our decisions for me not to go in and see Mark that Sunday night. You had warned me that he did
not have much time at all and how bad he looked, then you asked me if I wanted to see him... I did so much want to see him,
fearing/knowing that it would be for the last time, but then I remember the last time I saw him... and he was smiling...He
still looked like Mark (for the most part). You recommended that it may not be best, and I appreciated that. We both decided
that you were right at that time. Looking back, I would have liked the chance to hold his hand and to let him know that I
was there, but I probably would have closed my eyes so that I could remember him how I now choose to remember him...How I
hope everyone can remember him...happy, healthy, handsome and full of life. |
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Ill be thinking of you guys all day today... |
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thinking of the dewalles today and always, we love you.
Love, Tim, Diane, Roenick, and Eve Selby |
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| submitted on June 13, 2008 11:13 AM EDT |
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I miss you my friend... I cannot believe it has been a year since you left us. I hope all of your drives are splitting the
heavenly fairways, and all your putts are finding the bottom of the cups! Your legacy and spirit live on within us and you
will never be forgotten. Barb, Don, John and all of the DeWalle family, my thoughts are with you today. |
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I am so sorry for your loss. I have been wondering what to say, but nothing really seems right... I am happy that this day
Mark found peace and knew how much you loved him. You are so strong! Thank you for having us over last night, even though
our stay was short. Please remember you are surrounded by love here and in heaven, you are such a wonderful person! God bless. |
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I wanted you to know that I'm thinking about Mark and all of you even more so today. He is so loved and missed today and
everyday. Lots of hugs, love and prayers, Michelle |
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Hi DeWalle's - I am thinking about you all today. I wish that I could have been there with you all last night. I have been
thinking about when Barb called me last year at this time and both the sadness and relief I felt that Mark was finally at
peace. More than anything, I have thought of all the hard times that Mark has helped me get through over the course of the
past year. I know he is with me, he's with us all. Anytime I am scared, I think of him and how brave he was, how he remained
in control until the end, and I know that I can make it though whatever. I wish you all a day of peace. Love, Lisa |
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Thinking of all of you today. I can't believe a year has gone by already. I hope you take time to just relax today and reflect
on all the great Mark memories you have. Hugs go out to you!!! |
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Wow...one year what can you say? I love reading your thoughts on what you posted during this week and what you were thinking
at the time. I did not know Mark very well b/c he was a year or so ahead of me but I feel like I've known him forever! He
was so very loved by everyone that he came into contact with. I hope you feel peace and comfort tonight with Mark (dragonflies). |
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I don't very often send a message to Mark's website -even though I think of him everyday. It is hard for me to put in words
how I feel. However, these are days that bring back many memories of the grandson I love so much and I want everyone to
know his life meant so much to me.
When looking back over the past year I experienced feelings of sadness, while at the same time I can smile remembering all
the wonderful moments I shared with him. I love talking to his Mother about him and how he made so many others happy. During
the past weeks I felt comfort and strength just thinking how brave and courageous he was and how he showed what true love
is for his family and friends.
Mark, you will always be a part of my life - I love you!! Grandma Joyce |
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| submitted on June 12, 2008 10:35 AM EDT |
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This week we have shared your memories, hurts,tears and stories. Looking back is bittersweet but so necessary for the soul.
May you feel Mark's spirit and the arms of God around you. I hope and pray it helps a little to know that others share your
pain and were honored to be apart of Mark's life. |
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